
It is an understatement to say that Christmas is our favorite holiday. We will hear songs like “ Jingle Bells,“ ,“ Joy to the World” , “ Pasko na Naman “ being hummed by Filipinos young and old played endlessly on the airwaves. Yes, we Filipinos embrace the holiday season with so much glee!
As a result, we tend to get even busier, with the list of gifts that we have to buy, wrap, and give. Then there are parties that need to be organized. Are we overlooking the real meaning behind all these festivities? Are we also passing on a misdirected notion to our children that Christmas, instead of being time to give love, is an occasion to attend parties and receive gifts? If you are one of the many families longing to put some meaning to your Christmas celebrations, then the following ideas may be of help:
Remember the Nativity. The story of the Little Baby boy born to a Virgin in a cold manger is the real reason for all the celebration. Let’s put His story back at the heart of Christmas. Hearing mass together, recounting the year’s milestones, and joining each other in a prayer of thanks are other good practices.
Spend quality time with the family. Another characteristic unique to us Filipinos is the way we make the season truly family-oriented. This year, as you visit Lolo and Lola, surprise them by having your children practice traditional Filipino customs that show love and respect, e.g. pagmamano and use of po and opo. You can also ask the children to prepare a song and dance number to present to the family.
Rekindle ties with your grandparents. Somewhere along the road to adulthood, we may lost touch with our birth godparents. For sure, they will be glad to know how you are doing and be pleasantly delighted that you took the time to check on them.
Exchange Christmas cards and personal favors with your family. Ideally, gifts are given to people we love. This Christmas, you might want to consider exchanging Christmas cards and “personal favor certificates”. By exchanging genuinely heartfelt messages, you will be literally giving each other the gift of thoughtfulness, time and love.
Show appreciation for your neighbors. Christmas is also the perfect time to express our thankfulness to people who help us in small ways. Remember people who make each day of the year more manageable for you, the neighbor, the bank teller who never fails to assist you with a smile, the loyal household help.
Share your blessings with the less fortunate. One very important lesson you can impart to your children – Christmas is the time to remember how much they have been blessed. Let them experience giving back to the less fortunate. Share a portion of your family’s precious time by joining your church or local community in distributing food, used clothing, and toys. Provide financial assistance to a chosen child for his schooling and everyday needs.
This year, consider humming a different Christmas tune. Share your time and affection and be more understanding and considerate to others. Together with your whole family, rediscover and celebrate the true meaning of Christmas. Merry Christmas everyone!
Source: Nestle magazine